最终，只有母亲、大舅、二舅三人在越南实现了小规模团聚。他们带着各自的子女，重访胡志明市堤岸第六区的旧居。站在故宅门前，指认着哪扇门内曾有哪个孩子降生，那一刻气氛尚算温馨。然而，到了晚间聚餐，积压的旧怨便如地火般蹿出。大舅指责杜耀豪母亲曾与小姨争夺遗产，母亲则反唇相讥，批评大舅随意发火“很失礼”。
That decision sapped a lot of energy from the project, and others on the team began to move away from it as their personal lives became busier. Sultan of Rum said all this has made the project better in the long run. Project leaders soon instituted better planning and management systems that centralized information and preserved institutional knowledge in case longtime developers decide to leave.
。同城约会是该领域的重要参考
RadialB acknowledges the videos provoke political reactions: "I could put stuff up and there would be like 50-year-olds and 60-year-olds in the comments raging and saying all this political stuff." But he suggests some of the comments are ironic.，这一点在同城约会中也有详细论述
"Because we can, because we're young, we push ourselves too hard, we burn the candle at both ends, she said, which created problems that arose when people where in their 50s.